No.2932
Why did you choose that picture for the thread? It's sending mixed messages.
No.2933
Why would this be the right place for your pointless self-serving bullsoykaf? Either leave the girl or stop hanging around your ex, don't come posting online fishing for someone to tell you how in the right you are.
Goddamn underachievers.
No.2934
>>2933It's not my ex. Ive never engaged a single love story with this girl. and as I said, I am not there to prove im right. I want some opinions
No.2935
this girl is fucked and your relationship with her is fucked. It sounds like she is extremely dependent on you.
This story probably ends in heartbreak.
No.2944
My advice is don't look for relationship advice on sites like this.
No.2955
>I think I am in the position to make her feel better about life
You're almost certainly not in that position. Only she can help herself feel better and find happiness in life.
Your girlfriend sounds kind of manipulative, but I'm only going off of what you said. However, if you think that way, too, maybe it's time to rethink where this relationship is headed. You can make it work, but she needs to help you along the way.
With all that being said, having been that mentally unhealthy and depressed person in my relationships, it means a lot to have someone by my side who can put up with me. I found myself a wonderful partner who I feel like understands me and my mental struggles, and their patience means the world to me.
Your girlfriend sounds like she needs a rock, and if you truly love her, you can be that rock. However, a relationship is a two way road. She needs to play her part. Not making you feel guilty over petty things in response to her own insecurities would be a nice start.
No.3026
>>2931She needs professional help from a therapist, there's nothing you can do to help her. I know it sounds rough, but that's the bitter truth.
No.3038
Just have other girlfriends/fwb, that way when you inevitably find out she’s “cheating” on you with her ex or some other dude you won’t feel so bad.
No.3044
Reading this thread, I feel like every reply is dead wrong in their diagnosis except
>>2944 No.3048
>>3044Yeah, it's not like you're gonna take the wrong advice from a place like this and ruin your life with it. You're just gonna get a pile of rubbish from people projecting their own problems, basement bound hikkis, people who believe in memes like "social engineering", reciters of proverbial "truths", trolls etc… you're inevitably going to roll your eyes and realize you've wasted your time. Never in my life has anyone given me useful advice on a chan. Half the time it's not even on topic.
No.3054
I've learned from a lifetime of ignoring sound advice and stubbornly trying to the contrary that you can't fix people. People fix themselves, or they stay damaged.
So do with that what you will. Hope things go better in the future regardless.
No.3055
OP, i'm so sorry you're going through this. I ddo really suggest you don't take advice from here, go to someone you trust who understands the situation a bit more. Please be careful.
No.3061
>>3026Yes, true. I can see some possible borderline traits there.
>>2931If this is the frame of the situation, you'll need to be very understandable with her. I know that's very easy to crucify the borderline (just dealing with the hypothesis), but I don't think this is the better way to act.
