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 No.187

Has anyone gone through a bad breakup with someone you were in a serious relationship with? How did you cope? How long did it take for you to be at peace?

 No.191

I have. It's been years, but I'm still not fully at peace. Only having a poor memory makes it less bad every year, sadly. I wish I wouldn't forget, though.
I didn't cope well. I don't really have advice. It was a year long online relationship with a great man.

 No.193

Dated the first girl I ever loved for 3 years. That was 3 years ago. I didn't cope well either at first. We still talk regularly, and never really stopped talking regularly. I'm "over" her in the sense that given the oppurtunity to date her again I'd turn it down, but I definitely still love her. Probably always will.

As for advice, what got me "peace" was loving and supporting her in her decisions, meditation, and learning to really love who I am. I wouldn't really say I'm at peace, but that would be for other reasons. But in regards to her, our romantic chapter of my life has ended and I'm ok with that.

Haven't come anywhere close to feeling the same way about another girl and have mostly given up hope that I ever will. Really all I want is a girl who isn't retarded but apparently that's asking too much.

 No.194

The love of my life divorced me 3 years ago after a 10 year relationship. I "cope" with drugs/alcohol and sleeping 12+ hours a day. Peace for me will seemingly only come in death.

 No.197

>>194
>divorce
I'm sorry, lainon.



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